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Posted by Dave on October 15, 2009 No Comments

sex educationHow does the law in my country/state apply when having sex?

Laws about sex vary depending on which country. The most important thing to know is the age of consent. This is the age at which it is legal to have sex. For Australians it is:

  • 16 years in ACT, N.S.W., NT, Vic and WA.
  • 17 years in SA and Tasmania.
  • Queensland has 18 years (for anal sex) and 16 years for vaginal sex. Get more here

What is the average penis size?
Penis size differs from person to person. The average length when erect is 10-18cm (4-7in) although there maybe some variation between different races and nationalities.  Read more
My penis is curved. Is that normal?
It is quite normal for a man’s penis to curve or lean slightly to the right or the left when erect. Many men’s penises will curve upwards too. However, if the penis suddenly develops a lump which causes it to bend abnormally, it should probably be checked by a doctor. It may be a sign of a condition called Peyronie’s disease, which isn’t life threatening, but may be uncomfortable and require treatment.

Does my vagina look the way it should?
Vagina’s come in all different shapes and sizes, just as other parts of the body do, so there is no set way that a vagina should look.
A woman’s sex organs are protected by two thick folds of skin or “lips” called the outer labia. Inside these is another set of lips known as the inner labia. These are thinner than the outer labia and are usually slightly different lengths. In some women the inner labia will stick out below the outer labia. In other women it will be the other way round. Women also have a clitoris, which is a small sensitive bump a little way above the urethra (urine hole) and the entrance to the vagina. Read more
How do you ask someone out?
You could start off by simply smiling, making eye contact and saying hello. If they notice you, you could then think about taking things further. Look for clues about their interests, as these can be a good starting point for conversations. If they seem happy to chat, you could then introduce yourself and eventually work up to meeting for lunch, a coffee, or a trip the cinema etc.
Even though it can be nerve-racking asking somebody out, don’t try too hard to make an impression. The most important thing really is to be relaxed and be yourself: that way they will know your interest is genuine. Even if the person concerned doesn’t seem interested, at least you will know you tried.
I think I fancy one of my friends – does this mean I’m gay?
Many people have feelings towards other people of the same sex, and wonder whether this means that they are homosexual. Some people who are attracted to other people of the same sex are gay and go on to have sexual relationships with people of the same sex. Some who have gay feelings find that these change over time and they become attracted to people of the opposite sex. Others may be attracted to both men and women. The important things is to be confident and proud about your sexuality. Parents need to support their child’s sexuality.

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