FIVE potential sex problems….and what some of the experts say…PLUS teh dadsclub.com.au take on this ….

Sex Problem  # 1. Premature ejaculation.

They say he should not insert his penis inside the vagina and should keep his excitation at a constant level just by body-to-body contact and foreplay. He does not have to perform for orgasm either for the female partner or for his own. So he can keep himself relaxed and not worry about his performance. He can stay there without any performance fears. If his excitation seems to vane away, he may decide to insert also; but, if on inserting, he feels that his excitation is reaching its peak very fast, he can withdraw again. He can also only partially insert. In any case, he has just to make sure that his excitation level remains constant and forget everything about orgasm either for his partner or for himself. This attitude, in the due course of time, will also tend to eradicate his problem of premature ejaculation.

We say..lighten your load prior or go for round 2 – Don’t piss off to the pub when you’re done

Sex Problem # 2. The female partner may feel pain upon insertion.

They say…In that case, better avoid the insertion and maintain the constancy of excitation through other means. There are many. You just have to be a little more innovative. In the meantime, you may discover sometime that even insertion, too, is no more painful.

We say...You’re either hung like a donkey with some serious girth or you haven’t been doing it regularly  enough. whilst it may not grow over, regular sex keeps all in good shape. We agree with being innovative!

Sex Problem # 3. Impotent male partner.

They say….Even that does not become a bar in this sexual procedure. You may simply enjoy the body-warmth of your partner which tends to be exciting. Do not wait for the excitation to mount up. Simply enjoy the warmth and the considerate touch of your partner’s body. The rest will be taken care by the nature and one fine morning you may discover you are no more impotent!

We say…you’re stressed and this is probably weighing on you heavily. With time it should be OK otehrwise see a doctor – avoid drugs. Nothing lasts forever…relax and go herbal.

Sex Problem # 4. The female partner may obstruct insertion involuntarily because of her problem of vaginismus. (what the hell is that!!!???)

They say…Again, no problem! Avoid the insertion and maintain the constancy of excitation through other innovative means. After a while, some day you may, very hopefully, discover that your vaginismus has disappeared.

We say…we want to know  what is the vaginismus??/Wiki says….

Sex Problem # 5. Consistency….

They say…Even if you do not have any sex problems, you may not be able to keep the excitation at a constant level. It may either reach its peak without giving you enough time and energy to keep it there and turn into an orgasm. It may also slide down the other way. In an attempt to keep it at a constant level it may simple vane away and the whole process may get boring for you.

In the first case, the problem lies with your habit patterns. Go back to the preparatory habit-formative exercises and you will be able to solve the problem.

In the second case, the problem may either lie with your habit patterns or with your attitude or both. You may be a victim to sharp rises and falls in your response patterns. When you don’t allow a sharp rise to take place, the opposite does, i.e., a sharp fall in your excitation takes place. Or you may not be genuinely attracted toward the person you are sleeping with. Or else you may not have cared to develop an intimate friendship between the two. Go back to the preparatory habit-formative exercises, the preparatory attitude-building exercises, and to the preparatory sensitivity-building exercises. Your sex problems will get solved.

We say...mix it round, avoid consistency, take yourself back to when you were in your young twenties – mix it up!

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